EErcolano – Another episode of gender-based violence, another woman forced to live in terror. It happened overnight in Ercolano, where Carabinieri arrested a 54-year-old man, a resident of Naples, on charges of stalking his ex-wife.
This case is part of a dramatically growing phenomenon: psychological violence and persecution, often underestimated, continue to affect women of all ages and backgrounds.
The call to the military came around 1:00 a.m. On the other end, a woman's broken voice: "He's here again." It wasn't the first time. The man, from whom she's been separated for some time, has been tormenting her for months with obsessive and disturbing behavior: he shows up at her house, rings the intercom, asks to come up, or simply stands there, silent, like a constant, threatening shadow.
It doesn't limit itself to the nighttime hours. It also follows her during the day, to her usual haunts, making any moment of normalcy impossible. The 52-year-old woman is so distressed that she has undertaken psychological therapy to deal with the anxiety and stress of this constant harassment. She has filed numerous complaints, but the man has continued to ignore every limit, every warning.
Last night, following yet another alarm, a Carabinieri patrol reached the woman's home, where they located the red small car already reported in previous reports.
Upon seeing the officers, the man attempted to escape: he reversed and ran into a dead-end street, hoping the darkness would hide him. But the attempt was in vain. He was apprehended and taken to the police station, arrested, and transferred to prison.
A phenomenon that does not stop
to Herculaneum This is just the latest in a long series of cases demonstrating how gender-based violence, even in its psychological and persecutory forms, is a social emergency that is far from being contained. It's not always a physical attack, but the daily oppression, control, and invasion of living space can slowly destroy a woman's life.
Increasingly, victims find themselves alone, facing unbearable pressure, and despite reports and precautionary measures, recidivism is common. A change of pace is needed, not just in repressive terms, but in preventive and cultural ones.
Violence isn't just a punch or a slap: it's also a man who rings the doorbell every night, who follows you, who won't take a "no." And who turns your life into a prison.
In a country where cases of femicide, stalking, and abuse are recorded daily, simply talking about them is no longer enough: we need to act. With effective laws, timely controls, and above all, a real network of protection and support for victims, who too often feel abandoned.
Article published by A. Carlino on July 26, 2025, at 14:49 PM

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